Wow! How did I not discover the diverse, yet equally sizzling, weekly Sex Diaries at New York Magazine until now? I thought I’d better share them with you quick smart, in case you’ve managed to miss them too. Sex writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel edits these gems every Monday for NY Mag’s Daily Intel. Here are some excerpts:
The Stay-at-Home Mom With Schoolgirl Spanking Fantasies
6:45 a.m. Early morning, daughter is back in school. Check e-mail, crow about today’s new writing release and wank. Nothing pretty, just a quick release to one of my favourite fantasies. Naughty schoolgirl being spanked and having sex with stern yet horny and hot headmaster. Puts ideas in my mind. Maybe I need to pull out the schoolgirl outfit again?
The Submissive Man Who Isn’t Allowed to Orgasm
11:18 p.m. I am ready for bed, still chained. DR puts my ankle cuffs on and locks them together, part of “tucking me in.” She mentions that she expects some manual orgasms from me in the morning. I am having trouble slowing my mind. Finally, she reaches under the covers. I am expecting her to tease me, but she instead moves my wedding band from my left hand to my right. This signifies that I am to speak only when spoken to. I don’t think she is annoyed, just helping me calm myself. And it always leaves me turned on, just from yielding control.
The Lesbian Whose Dreams Are Much Dirtier Than Her Sex Life
7:30 p.m. Dinner with a dear friend and former lover. Love how easily the conversation flows and how we can make fun of one another’s embarrassing flaws with total abandon. Memories of how much fun we used to have getting smashed and smashing one another with fingers and tongues and dildos fill my mind. I contemplate what that would be like now and decide it probably wouldn’t be hot without six martinis. I remind myself how awful cheating feels — I’ve been on both ends of that stick — and a flush of love for my partner fills me.
Find the archive here.