The sense of touch is one that we try our darndest to convey in our audio erotica. In mainstream pornography so much emphasis is placed on the appearance of a porn star or the closeup of gleaming genitals that you may forget that it is the feeling of those body parts you are seeking, not how round or tanned they are. How lovely is a description so well-written that your skin shivers with an imagined stroke? Here are two very sensuous pieces on the topic of touch, over at Sexis.
AHubbyof2SexualMinds tells the story of a game of guided touch with his wife.
She had always loved for me to use my hands on her, running along her body and within her, but had never felt comfortable with her own hands and fingers. I found this odd, only because in our lives touch is something we experience all of the time and a great deal of that touch comes from our hands interacting with things, people, objects, the keyboard as I’m typing this. We are comfortable using our hands as we need for many things, but often people don’t feel comfortable in touching themselves. Read More…
From the incredible intimacy of simply holding hands, to their uses in the context of kink, Mollena takes us on her tactile journey.
I have been shocked by the amount of pain and discomfort and pleasure that someone can provide me with the same pair of hands. Fingers that gently caress one moment can, within an instant, switchback to pincers that pull and abuse willing flesh into new realms of pleasurable pain. The hand that softly strokes my face can, within a flash, slap the breath out of me, leaving me dizzy and reeling, gasping and blinking in the flashbulb aftermath of an astonishingly fast contact that leaves me longing in terror of the next strike. Read More…
Wow! How did I not discover the diverse, yet equally sizzling, weekly Sex Diaries at New York Magazine until now? I thought I’d better share them with you quick smart, in case you’ve managed to miss them too. Sex writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel edits these gems every Monday for NY Mag’s Daily Intel. Here are some excerpts:
The Stay-at-Home Mom With Schoolgirl Spanking Fantasies
6:45 a.m. Early morning, daughter is back in school. Check e-mail, crow about today’s new writing release and wank. Nothing pretty, just a quick release to one of my favourite fantasies. Naughty schoolgirl being spanked and having sex with stern yet horny and hot headmaster. Puts ideas in my mind. Maybe I need to pull out the schoolgirl outfit again?
The Submissive Man Who Isn’t Allowed to Orgasm
11:18 p.m. I am ready for bed, still chained. DR puts my ankle cuffs on and locks them together, part of “tucking me in.” She mentions that she expects some manual orgasms from me in the morning. I am having trouble slowing my mind. Finally, she reaches under the covers. I am expecting her to tease me, but she instead moves my wedding band from my left hand to my right. This signifies that I am to speak only when spoken to. I don’t think she is annoyed, just helping me calm myself. And it always leaves me turned on, just from yielding control.
The Lesbian Whose Dreams Are Much Dirtier Than Her Sex Life
7:30 p.m. Dinner with a dear friend and former lover. Love how easily the conversation flows and how we can make fun of one another’s embarrassing flaws with total abandon. Memories of how much fun we used to have getting smashed and smashing one another with fingers and tongues and dildos fill my mind. I contemplate what that would be like now and decide it probably wouldn’t be hot without six martinis. I remind myself how awful cheating feels — I’ve been on both ends of that stick — and a flush of love for my partner fills me.
Find the archive here.Tags: lesbian, NY Mag, Rachel Kramer Bussel, School Girl, Sex Diaries, Stay at Home Mum, Submissive
Dirty talk: it promises naughty good times, but sometimes it can be a little tricky to know exactly where to start. Let Amy Jo Goddard guide you beyond your shyness into a world of fun with filthy words at this event presented by the Lesbian Sex Mafia.
Have a lover who wishes you would, but you sometimes clam up or struggle with obstacles to saying those sweet nasty things? Wish you could open the door to dirty words without shame? This workshop will be a fun exploration of dirty talk, why we like it, what we want from it and how to incorporate it with partners and make our scenes hotter. There is no one size fits all, so you’ll explore and practice what feels good for you, how to find common ground with your partners, and walk away with a bigger dirty vocabulary. Attendees can decide how much to participate but it will be guaranteed fun! C’mon’ say it like you mean it!
The Fine Art of Dirty Talk with Amy Jo Goddard
When: Feb 17th, 8 – 10 pm
Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th St (7th/8th Ave)
Cost: LSM Members: $5/Non Members: $10
Each month, Bedpost Confessions assembles a fabulous and diverse group of sexy writers, readers, and actors with performances about sex, sensuality, and the steamy side of life. This month the Austin based event will be sparking conversations in San Francisco, in a co-presentation by Femina Potens.
The SF edition will be hosted by Julie Gillis and feature readings by activist and feminist porn producer Madison Young, sex blogger Sadie Smythe, radical sex hacker Maggie Mayhem, 2010 International Ms Leather Mollena Williams, author and activist Thea Hillman, and Lambda Literary winner Simon Sheppard.
Thursday, September 22nd
The Make-Out Room
3225 22nd Street
San Francisco, CA
$15 at the door
Listen to a recording from the August event with literary humor involving buttocks, cunnilingus, and one man’s subconscious – by Irwin Tang.